A lengthy discussion with a family friend reminded me of one of the reasons why I am sometimes unable to relate to Vi on a personal level. (My ‘coldness’ has been a major contributor to our falling apart.) Don’t know the reasons for it exactly but ‘walls’ that hinder intimacy have appeared at certain junctures in our relationship. I have gone through a few sessions of pastoral counselling to understand these structures I have built around my heart and more is needed. My friend advised me to seek professional counsellors. They are better equipped to help than my pastor is - who has helped me very much, I must say.
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